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Resolving Conflicts Harmoniously: Control Begins When You Give It Up

This training provides an opportunity to let go of limited beliefs and reactive patterns in dealing with conflict and become an instrument of peace.Participants will learn to:Identify their usual pattern of handling conflicts and the beliefs that underlie their response.Shift from a reactive response to a calmer, centered and more open state.Not take other's insensitive comments or verbal attacks personally.Make a blend with an opposing point of view so you see the seed of truth in it and guide the other person in seeing the seed of truth in your perspective. Successfully resolve the conflict in a win-win manner and contract for changeAreas Covered What is a conflictRecognize your reactive style under pressure Five conflict handling modes and when they are best usedPractice shifting from your reaction and the stories of your mind to a calmer, centered more open state.The seven step aiki model for resolving conflictsVerbally apply the model to your workplaceUsing a real life example, assess the conflict in order to gain a fuller understanding of it.Learn and practice the steps of contracting for change Who Should Attend All leaders.Why Should You AttendAs the pressure of change exponentially increases, it is easy to react rather than respond to the difficult people and situations we encounter. Some people avoid conflict because they fear repercussions. Others meet it with such force that even if they win the battle, they keep themselves and their organizations stuck in patterns that limit collaboration, innovation, and performance. Yet we each have a choice as to whether we add to the conflicts in the world or become an instrument of peace within our families, our workplace, and our community. By learning to resolve conflict harmoniously, we plant the seeds for a more conscious, compassionate, and united world. This training will teach you a more effective and harmonious way of resolving conflicts which develops self- mastery, and enhances collaboration, engagement, and performance. It is an essential skill of the art of leadership.Topic Background Unlike most conflict resolution trainings, this presentation is a blend of information and embodied experience, Participants will learn how to move out of their cognitive minds into their mind/bodies in order to manifest a calm center capable of handling the conflict.

This training provides an opportunity to let go of limited beliefs and reactive patterns in dealing with conflict and become an instrument of peace.

Participants will learn to:

  • Identify their usual pattern of handling conflicts and the beliefs that underlie their response.
  • Shift from a reactive response to a calmer, centered and more open state.
  • Not take other's insensitive comments or verbal attacks personally.
  • Make a blend with an opposing point of view so you see the seed of truth in it and guide the other person in seeing the seed of truth in your perspective.
  • Successfully resolve the conflict in a win-win manner and contract for change

Areas Covered     

  • What is a conflict
  • Recognize your reactive style under pressure
  • Five conflict handling modes and when they are best used
  • Practice shifting from your reaction and the stories of your mind to a calmer, centered more open state.
  • The seven step aiki model for resolving conflicts
  • Verbally apply the model to your workplace
  • Using a real life example, assess the conflict in order to gain a fuller understanding of it.
  • Learn and practice the steps of contracting for change   

Who Should Attend    

All leaders.

Why Should You Attend

As the pressure of change exponentially increases, it is easy to react rather than respond to the difficult people and situations we encounter. Some people avoid conflict because they fear repercussions. Others meet it with such force that even if they win the battle, they keep themselves and their organizations stuck in patterns that limit collaboration, innovation, and performance. Yet we each have a choice as to whether we add to the conflicts in the world or become an instrument of peace within our families, our workplace, and our community. By learning to resolve conflict harmoniously, we plant the seeds for a more conscious, compassionate, and united world. This training will teach you a more effective and harmonious way of resolving conflicts which develops self- mastery, and enhances collaboration, engagement, and performance. It is an essential skill of the art of leadership.

Topic Background    

Unlike most conflict resolution trainings, this  presentation is a blend of information and embodied experience, Participants will learn how  to move out of their cognitive minds into their mind/bodies in order to manifest a calm center capable of handling the conflict.